I’ve written a resume a time
or two in my life. A bunch,
actually. I find them fairly easy to
write.
A resume is a chronological
listing of things done in one’s life.
Not everything, just those things that would be pertinent for the
position and the job one seeks. However,
a resume tells only a part of the story, only those things that are important
to obtain the job.
There is much left out of a
resume. There is nothing about what
movies you like to watch or with whom you like to watch them. There is nothing about what books you like to
read. There is nothing about your
favorite foods or beverages. There is
nothing about places you’ve been to or places you’d like to go. Nothing about your bucket list.
So as much as a Resume tells
about you, it is really incomplete.
I’ve also written an Epitaph
in my life. Only one.
When our son, Wil, was shot
and killed a year and a month ago in Chicago, Kim and Hannah and Emily and I
had to visit the funeral home with our daughter-in-law, Maria, and we had to
put together a chronology of Wil’s life.
How do you do that in a paragraph or two?
I have to admit, it was one
of the tougher things I ever had to do in my life. I know Kim, Hannah, Emily and Maria would say
the same thing.
There were so many stories we
wanted to share about Wil. Like the time
he got completely and utterly lost on his way from Milwaukee to Fredericksburg
to visit us. Somehow, he ended up in Kentucky. Or the time he and Maria dressed up as Ninja,
went to a park after hours in order to get a kite out of a tree. Or the time he was on a breakaway in a high
school soccer game and an opposing player tried to slow him down by grabbing
onto his shorts, which ended up around his knees. Or the time in a high school track meet when
he came in second, but broke a school record with a badly torn thigh
muscle.
Like the Resume, an Epitaph
is incomplete. Neither tell the complete
story of an individual’s life.
And, there is a major
difference between the Resume and the Epitaph.
A Resume is written when one
seeks something. A Resume is written
when one wants to move on, to gain something different. An Epitaph is written when one is dead. It is a tribute to one’s life, hopefully,
well-lived.
In essence, a Resume seeks to
move one forward, whereas an Epitaph marks one’s end.
I think there are times when
we forget to live, to move forward, to advance.
I think there are times when we only settle for titles, and positions,
and things. We forget the greater
purpose of our lives, the meaning of our lives.
We seek to gain titles and positions and things for sometimes selfish
reasons. So that upon our death, an Epitaph
can be written that is a tribute to all we gained, all we’ve done, all the
titles we held, so people can yell (or perhaps think) “Bravo!”
Do you notice that an Epitaph
is written upon one’s death? It is
written in the past tense of one’s life.
A Resume, however, is written when life seeks to be lived further and is
written in the present and future tense.
To me, it is important to write Resumes, to live and to keep moving
forward and to live in the present. And,
if one writes a full and complete Resume – not once, but again and again – then
the Epitaph will take care of itself.
Something to think about . . .
Live Your Life, and Make A
Difference!
To my readers:
You will notice that I’ve
written sparingly during these summer months.
I needed to recharge myself emotionally and spiritually, first and
foremost. I need to be with my family in
the present as much as possible. Lastly,
I’ve been working on the third book of The
Lives Trilogy, Splintered Lives,
which will be out sometime this month (I think). It is the final book of the trilogy. Yet, for those of you who have been asking,
my plan is to take a couple of my favorite characters and move them forward
into different storylines, yet in the thriller/mystery fiction genre.
If you are interested in
catching up, you can purchase the following via Amazon in ebook or paperback or
by messaging me and I can send you a signed copy. They are:
Taking Lives, which is the prequel to the
trilogy. Kelliher and the FBI have a
string of dead bodies with no leads. A
twelve year old boy holds the key to the puzzle, but doesn’t know it. Taking
Lives can be found at: http://www.amazon.com/Taking-Lives-Joseph-Lewis-ebook/dp/B00MG2JAWE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1407974964&sr=8-1&keywords=Taking+Lives%2C+Joseph+Lewis
Stolen Lives, Book One of the Lives
Trilogy. Two 13 year old boys are
abducted off a safe suburban street. Kelliher knows he has to find them within
the first 24 hours or they’ll end up like all the others: dead! Can he find
them before they disappear forever? Without any leads? With a leak in the FBI,
and possibly on his own team?
Stolen Lives can be found at: http://www.amazon.com/Stolen-Lives-Trilogy-Book-ebook/dp/B00PKKN6W4/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1415908221&sr=1-1&keywords=Stolen+Lives%2C+Joseph+Lewis
Shattered Lives, Book Two of the Lives
Trilogy. The boys were freed from captivity. The hospital staff, the FBI and
even their parents thought the boys were now safe, and they were, until people
began dying. Six dangerous men escaped and the FBI has only a slight idea of
who they are, but no clue and no leads as to where they are, so they can only
wait, which is a deadly game when it comes to the lives of children.
Shattered Lives can be found at http://www.amazon.com/Shattered-Lives-Trilogy-Book-ebook/dp/B00UZRP828/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1427118727&sr=1-1&keywords=Shattered+Lives%2C+Joseph+Lewis
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